For some people, the very best kink is no real kink at all…it’s merely sex, and lots of it.
Just logging-on to a xxxmatch is wild enough for some daters, they don’t need to traipse over to Fetlife or go down to the nearest dungeon. The mere fact that they are thinking about and trying to facilitate sex dating is wild enough for many people’s imaginations.
We all know kinks can run the gambit to swinging, spanking and anything above, beyond or below but for some people xxx dating is as determined by individual limits. What one person considers sex dating might simply be his or her chatting to a few different individuals online about sex during the course of the week, while other guys and girls need to take their sex dating off of an xxxmatch to have sex with as many people in the flesh as they can. And for some, the kink they enjoy is simply sex dating in and of itself, nothing much more.
Our need for sex dating over the course of our adult life can wax and wane as much as our need for kink. We can find whole decade where all we want is sex dating and kinks far and away above and beyond just the dating and the sex, other times we might be erring more on the side of monogamy while still holding on to a few kinks or just sex dating completely vanilla. And lots of what we do in our sex life, even if we admit it to ourselves is as much dictated to by the partners we are with as what we want at any given time.
The main thing is just to keep moving forward in our pursuits, even if we are in a monogamous relationship, not sex dating and wouldn’t even consider swatting the ass of our partner. To be on an xxxmatch or a Facebook, consider sex dating kinky or not, what is truly kinky is allowing ourselves the freedom to do what we want the way we want it.