Nothing has taught me better about Xxx dating then not Xxx dating. The failures I have come up against on xxxmatch, my social portal, dating site of record, have humbled me in my Xxx dating more than the many successes I have found on the site. In a population as huge as the one on xxxmatch and the facility to meet other sex-minded singles like me, I encounter plenty of women here to fuck but have come to realize that not being the only guy here who wants to Xxx date that I have had to build my style and approach from the ground up.
And that’s been a very humbling experience indeed.
Out in the club scene the rate of rejection is higher of course because you are trying to meet people cold, without the aid of chats or looking through personals, or using a site’s search engines. I find that experience cold, not humbling where I can learn from my mistakes, where I can change and establish a better style. In the noise, heat and always too-loud music of a club when you get shot down you just feel shot down, never to try again.
On xxxmatch the failures I have met with have been equal to my successes but with each failure I have been able to talk to what I had hoped might have been a potential Xxx date, to reason why we didn’t hit it off and to realize, that most times, it has been a hit and a miss because of some divergent world-views, or too large a distance between the girl or I, maybe her being courted by another guy more suited to her or any number of a factors that embolden me more then they would ever depress me.
It’s all a good experience Xxx dating on xxxmatch, the good and the bad, the long and the short, the failure and the success of what I do.