Yes, sites are made as much by the people who create and maintain the site as much by the population that inhabit that site on a consistent basis. A place like xxxmatch has a decidedly sex edge to its making. It’s a naughty little portal for like-minded guys and girls looking for hook ups or to hang and talk about hook-ups. And because of the personality of the site, the search engine of that site, the adult friend finder will have a personality as well.
Surely it’s not like a person! The adult friend finder is a tool only and only reacts and finds through the parameters it is given, but the site determines the population the adult friend finder looks through and if the site is sexy and determined, as xxxmatch is, then that darn finder is going to route through, around and for only the sexiest people it can find.
When I log-on I imagine the friend finder licking its lips, ready to help me, jerking-off every time it find a match for me, aching to hear about my progress, masturbating even more when I am so bold to maybe search for a new guy in the very same week. It’s a little fantasy I give myself to explain away what I don’t understand, to personify the friend finder in a way that makes it seem more human to me, to help me reconcile this entire weird cold process of online dating and how it helps get me laid!
So I am going to keep thinking about things this way, no matter what anyone says to me-not that anyone does, the people on xxxmatch are about as horny as me and happy whenever they can exploit a match-and my friends no better than to say a blessed thing to me when I am on a roll.
I think the adult friend finder of xxxmatch not only has a personality but I think it has a great personality!